by Ava Pennington  It happened again. I found myself in a situation with a person who was difficult to get along with every time we interacted. Each time I entered the situation determined to be more patient, I failed miserably. So I berated myself and determined to try harder the next time. I needed  more patience. I wanted  more patience. But the outcome was a constant cycle of failure.  If the fruit of the Spirit is promised to every Christian, then why do so many believ